❀ Thank you kind soul!
the secret of transformation
that once you’ve been transformed,
the power to transform.
~ Marisa de los Santos
Why is judgement irrelevant? ……..
Everyone deals with the fear of judgment at some level. It makes no sense that we give other people this much power over how we feel about ourselves, but we often do.
*This happens to you more when you aren’t sure who you are. If you worry about what others think of you, you may need to clearly define who you are and what affects your value, once and for all. Clearly defining these two things will help you to take your power back.
*Your value is infinite and absolute (unchangeable) because you are a one-of-a-kind, irreplaceable.. I believe nothing you do, nothing anyone else says, thinks or does to you, and no situation in your life, can change your value. You are the same no matter what.
*You must know and believe you are as bulletproof as Superman. Offenses, insults and judgments can just bounce off, if you experience them that way. No one can hurt you without your permission.
*You are (literally) your love for yourself, people and life, and your love is the source of your value. That’s why you can’t lose who you are. If you would focus on being the love everywhere you go, the fear of judgment would stop, because you can’t do fear and love at the same time.
*The truth is, what others think of you is irrelevant. , “Judgment and fear will never stop, but they don’t actually do anything either.” What other people think of you doesn’t change you or affect your value at all. Their opinion doesn’t mean anything. You are the same you no matter what they think. Remind yourself of this often.
* Instead of resisting these feelings, or beating yourself up for having them, step back and let yourself really experience them. Fear and judgment are an interesting thing to experience. If you step back and pay attention, you will see they can’t hurt you. They aren’t even real. You have the power to replace these fears with truth.
* Choose to focus on giving love and validation to others when you feel fear. There is no faster way to escape your fear than choosing to focus on someone else. If you want to discover the true depth of your love, focus on loving, the very person that is judging you. This is not easy to do — but you can do it.
Mindfullness (our own judgments)
It’s a big deal to start noticing your own judging mind. It’s a big deal to start realizing the way we suffer because of judging. It’s one of those things that, once you start to see, you won’t un-see. Once you start to note judgment and then practice shooing judging away, you begin practicing non-judgment. The real glory of this is that we don’t realize, as we judge, that we are taking on a burden; the burden of reducing and judging people, places and things. When we practice non-judgment, we unburden ourselves from needless, self-created suffering.
Notice your judging thoughts, breathe them away and accept the people, places and things in our midst and lives unconditionally, as they are. Experience and make a practice of the unburdened openness of a non-judging mind. Stay present in the now.
(Spread love not hate) ‘hate is for the ignorant’ and YOUR opinion on who you think ‘is’ means nothing) especially to me.
High Tea, 1967, The Beatles
When you get to the “Clear Light of the Void” on that;perfect peace, everything is white, no sensory input, it is like I you step out of time into a frozen moment. Then when you come out… there will be no more visuals, etc. Just perfect crystal clarity. ~
“In this moment, there is plenty of time. In this moment, you are precisely as you should be. In this moment, there is infinite possibility.
I believe in God, but not as one thing..not as an old man in the sky
I believe that what people call God is something in all of us..
I believe that what Jesus,
Buddha and Mohammed and all the rest said, was right
the translation’s have just gone wrong~
by: John Lennon….
Koi and Water Lilies
Swami’s - Encinitas, California
Koi Fish symbols meaning: Feng Shui
May you have
- Good fortune
Love everyone. Have compassion for all other entities.
You do not need to go and take care of them.
Love them by allowing them to express however they choose.
That is the greatest thing you can do!
If they are angered or disappointed by your life, love them
by allowing them to be thay way.
Then you have become a great god, a great light!
I could stay on your page forever to listen to the music. Could you please tell me what it is? I love Indian classical music and I come from a culture of classical carnatic music. Could you please, please, please tell me the name of the song that is playing? And the Artist? Thank you so much. I adore your blog by the way. <3
Not sure which ones you are referring too. There are many …Kula Shaker, Alice Coltrane, Ravi Shankar and Ash Ra Tempel.
Namaste, Thank you
Splash some that holy water this way, George…. we all need it!
sometimes i have these ‘feng shui’ attacks…i have to stop everything , rearrange things and cleanse my chi.
The Cham, or sacred dance, is a feature of many Tibetan festivals. Described as “meditation in action” this ancient dance possesses many levels of meaning and is seen as a practice for purification and overcoming negative obstacles.